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INTRODUCTION
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Those
who were first converted by the Apostles revealed their conversion
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not
by feats of individual stardom but by entering a new life in
community.
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"The
faithful all lived together and owned everything in common; they
sold
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their
goods and possessions and shared out the proceeds among themselves
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according
to what each one needed. They went as a body to the Temple
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every
day but met in their houses for the breaking of the bread; they
shared
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their
food gladly and generously; they praised God and were looked up to
by
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everyone"
(Acts 2:44-47). God's compassion became evident in a radically
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new
way of living, which so amazed and surprised outsiders that they
said:
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"See
how they love each other."
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A
compassionate life is a life in which fellowship with Christ
reveals itself in
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a
new fellowship among those who follow Him. By entering into
fellowship
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with
Jesus Christ, who emptied Himself and became as we are, and
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humbled
Himself by accepting death on the cross, we enter into a new
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relationship
with each other. This new relationship with Christ and with
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each
other can never be separated. It is not enough to say that a new
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relationship
with Christ leads to a new relationship with each other, rather,
we
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must
say that the mind of Christ is the mind that gathers us together
in
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community;
our life in community is the manifestation of the life of Christ.
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In
and through Christ, people of different ages and lifestyles, from
different
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races
and classes, with different languages and education, can join
together
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and
witness to God's compassionate presence in our world. There are
many
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interest
groups and most of them seem to exist in order to defend
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something.
Although these groups often fulfil important tasks in our
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society,
the Christian community is of a different nature. When we form a
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Christian
community, we come together not because of similar experiences,
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knowledge,
problems, or colour, but because we have been called together by
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the
same Lord.
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The
basis of the Christian community is not the family tie, or social
or
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economic
equality, or shared oppression or complaint, or mutual attraction,
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but
the Divine call. The initiative belongs to God and God is the
source of
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our
life together. As people of God, we are called ekklesia (from the
Greek --
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kaleo,
call; and ek, out), the community called out of the old world into
the
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new.
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SITUATION
IN THE ARCHDIOCESE
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Major
observations concluded from the written and telephone surveys
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conducted
by Angus Reid Group in 1999:
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A.
Church is perceived to be unwelcoming: feeling of being
welcome is
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most
important especially for new members. Almost half of all
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parishioners
feel that making everyone feel welcome in the parish is
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the
most important fellowship and community activity.
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B.
There is a lack of support for members under age 30, over 60, and
a
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special
need for support for single parents. Outreach to young people
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as
well as practical and emotional support for fellow parishioners is
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perceived
to be important by one in four parishioners.
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C.
There is a need to improve sense of belonging, feeling of
community,
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with
consideration for ethnic accent. Overall, parishioners are most
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likely
to say that they have a moderate sense of community.
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However,
only 25% report having a strong sense of community and
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just
as many say they have a minimal sense of community or none at
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all.
A strong sense of community directly links with other aspects of
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the
Faith, such as willingness to share and do charitable work.
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D.
Talents of members are not used. Relatively few parishioners feel
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that
their own gifts and talents are welcomed and used in the parish,
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with
about a third who feel that their gifts and talents are rarely or
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never
used.
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E.
There is a minimal sense of connectivity to the archdiocese as a
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whole.
About one in ten parishioners are disappointed by the lack of
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community
they experience in their parish and in the Catholic
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community
more generally. These parishioners feel there is a lack of
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togetherness
and the Church is not welcoming of outsiders.
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RECOMMENDATIONS
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A.
Become a more welcoming church.
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We
need a fundamental change in mind-set and become more
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welcoming
in attitude, like the evangelical churches. Have you ever
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visited
the Sisters at the St. Clare's Monastery in Mission? Their
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mere
presence fills the room with such love, a caring serenity, and
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spiritual
joy, which is felt by all, even complete strangers. "Are we
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welcoming
to those who come to our door? Do we, as parish
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community,
seem to say that we are uncomfortable with you who are
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a
stranger? Or, do we reach out to you and welcome you, extending
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ourselves
to those who are new to our community?" 1 We
need to
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develop
a warmer and welcoming attitude to our fellow church
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members,
as well as visitors and strangers.
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Form hospitality teams
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Welcome everyone warmly before Mass begins
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Introduce new members on a one on one basis
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Hospitality Team to introduce new members to other members
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Expand database on new members to include special interests
info
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Introduce new members to whole congregation before Mass
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Introduce newly married couples (engagement blessings)
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Start parish pictorial directory
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Schedule open church hours
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Invite all to feast day, parish day, and confirmations
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Invite all to seasonal celebrations, parish picnics, ethnic
dinners,
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and sports days
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Improve outreach programs: home visits of shut-ins, sick
and
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disabled
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Introduce Catholic neighbours in the same neighbourhood to
one
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another
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Improve outreach to those in need
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Outreach to couples in 'irregular' marriages
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Develop network of support families for new member families
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Announce before Mass, the names of hospitality team members
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and liturgical ministers
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Use pulpit talks
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Review handbook for setting up small church communities,
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'Creating Small Church Communities' by Arthur
Baranowski.
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This book is a manual on restructuring the
parish so
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Catholic life can flourish. It explains how
small communities,
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neighbourhood based, provide a support system
and help
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members connect everyday life to faith. The
process described is
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based on the work done at St. Elizabeth Seton
Parish in Troy,
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Michigan. The original idea comes from South
America.
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B.
Organize support and activities for youth, seniors and single
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parents
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