Priests will be familiarizing
people with the contents of these Guidelines, especially with
those items, such as cremation, about which there may be some
confusion or misunderstanding. The priest, in his important
pastoral responsibility, will instruct and motivate his people
to a greater understanding and deeper appreciation of all
aspects of death and interment in the Catholic tradition, and
the spiritual and religious significance of death and burial.
Funeral and burial practices should always reflect Christian
simplicity rather than expensive material display. As a way to
ensure these values, prearranged plans for one's funeral and
cemetery needs, made in consultation with a funeral director or
representative of a Catholic cemetery (when one is available)
are recommended.
Having Masses and prayers
offered for the deceased is an important element of Catholic
practice. The paschal sacrifice offered for the dead assures
that, through the fellowship of all Christ's members, the
deceased obtains spiritual help and the living obtain the
consolation of hope. Also commendable and Christian are gifts
offered to worthwhile causes in memory of the deceased.
The priest will show loving concern for the family of the
deceased person, not only by personal condolences extended at
the time of the funeral, but also by remembrance in the liturgy
and encouragement to other parishioners to support the bereaved
family in adjusting to life without the deceased person.